Since 2000, all parents in Germany have been required to raise their children without violence.

Non-violent parenting means that parents must not hit their children, shout loudly at them or treat them badly. They should bring up their children with love and respect.

The state ensures that all parents do this. It's in the law. All parents in Germany must abide by it. Article 6 sentence 2 of the Basic Law states that parents have a duty to raise and protect their children.

There are different types of violence that children must not experience:

• Neglect means: parents do not take enough care of their child. For example, if the child is often hungry or doesn't get any help.
• Physical violence means that parents hit or hurt their child.
• Mental abuse means: Parents make the child sad or anxious with words or behavior.
• Sexual abuse means that adults do things to children that are not allowed and that hurt the children.
• Witnessing domestic violence means that children see or hear adults arguing loudly or hitting each other at home. This is very stressful for children.

The state protects the absence of violence in education in order to safeguard the welfare and rights of children. Violence can cause physical and psychological damage that impairs a healthy upbringing. The law is important because it lays down clear rules for parents and protects children from abuse. In this way, the state promotes a safe and nurturing environment in which children can develop.

If parents feel overwhelmed with the care or upbringing of their children or are not feeling well, they can seek help. For example, they can ask relatives or friends for support. Early help services also offer advice and support. If necessary, the youth welfare office can help. It is important that parents do not feel alone, but seek support to ensure that the children and the family are doing well.